quotes of the moment
"Judgment is a terrible evangelism strategy."
"What's the logic behind judging people who don't follow Jesus for behaving like people who don't follow Jesus?"
"Non-Christians usually act more consistently with their value system than you do.
"It's difficult for a non-Christian to be a hypocrite because they tend to live out what they believe.
"Chances are they are better at living out their values than you or I are. Jesus never blamed pagans for acting like pagans."
-- Carey Nieuwhof (in http://careynieuwhof.com/2015/06/some-advice-on-same-sex-marriage-for-us-church-leaders-from-a-canadian/)